There must be a certain high or a rush that I don’t know about when you tear somebody down while remaining anonymous or hiding behind your computer screen.
There is a disgusting site that many bloggers know about. I hate to even link it here because all it does is generate more traffic over there, fueling her ad revenue, and making it profitable for her to HATE on other human beings.
I don’t have very many nice things to say about this woman, so I won’t say anything. But I have been blessed with fabulous friends in high places that have helped me find her true identity.
This week I was the star of her post. KID COLLECTING she titled it. She wrote about how dysfunctional I was. What a terrible home for all my children I am providing. How horrible it is that I placed a child for adoption. That I don’t parent my step-children therefore I hate them. and why on gods green earth MUST I have a nanny if I am a stay at home mom. Then, she allows her readers to jump all over me and HATE HATE HATE. This all done under the premise that she is "protecting" my children from "over-sharing" on the internet.
I think she should be more concerned about HER children finding out that she spends her time on the internet ripping other human beings to shreds. Raise your hand if you think that’s better than posting pictures and sharing your children’s real names.
That’s what I thought.
She uses HATE and intimidation to try to get people to conform to her way of thinking. Is that so different from putting on a white sheet for anonymity and attacking innocent people because they are different?
I am not going to allow all of you to rip her a new one and attack her here because I would be doing the same thing she is doing.
So I am going to tell you what I know about her and maybe you can all pass this information around. (I have a lot more info but for now, this will suffice.)
Our attorney has been given this information and is going after her. I refuse to sit back and take her any longer. Her post is full of malice and defamation of character. She is welcome to her opinion. She is not welcome to publicly state her opinion as fact. That my friends is libel.
Chicken Liver is Michele Mcbee.
She also goes by Meshell or Shell.
She lives in Elk Grove, California (a short road trip away for me.) I wonder if her tune will change when I show up on her doorstep with my PI and attorney.
She has two sisters Marlene and Marsha they both live in CA too.
She has multiple names, maybe she has been married multiple times I am not sure.
Michele Rebeiro Yoakum Mcbee
She has a few emails you can reach her at
shellybien@comcast.net
parislights@gmail.com
Mintcookie@gmail.com
If she wants to talk shit about people, I think it’s important that she does it with her name behind it so her family knows what she is doing. What she is doing borders on a HATE CRIME. By bullying, harassing, verbally abusing and insulting she is walking a fine line between her opinion and a hate crime. Let’s make damn sure HER kids know what she spends HER time doing on the internet. I hope to hell when they google her name they find this site and learn who their real mama is. She is a hater! She spends 24/7 hating on bloggers, and typically targets successful mommy bloggers. WHY?
I hope she feels good about herself when she goes to sleep at night.
For all of my regular readers. I am sorry to interrupt my regular program to bring such TRASH to this place. I will resume my normal writing tomorrow.
For all of you visitors from Michelle’s site. Go worry about your own shit. Stop worrying about mine! And for the love of GOD, if you don’t like me, get the fuck off my blog!
*sorry for the harsh language
No such thing as bad advertising dear Sandi!
Looks like this girl just found you lots of new followers.
I guess I just don’t understand why some people see the need to publicly welcome drama to their lives.
Let me put it another way Sandi, you and your family have a whole hell of a lot of wingmen out here. Go team Benson! steve
Dude, she’s freakin’ FUGLY! No wonder she has to put others down.
Love reading your site, love your honesty. Life isn’t perfect and you don’t pretend it is. I’m glad you write, glad you share and happy to be a reader of your blog.
Hope you were able to celebrate the anniversary in spite of the poop.
I love you. I respect you. I’m glad you blog and I’m thankful that because of it I have a new friend.
And now a new enemy. I’m not standing for her shit.
I surf on over there when I feel like reminding myself that I’m a good person. People like that…they’re just…bad people. I’ve found more than a few good blogs to read as a result. I found yours. For the record, I come from a large family. I loved it. And for the record, I had a nanny as well. I love her to this day and hope she can come be MY kids’ nanny. I don’t think she’s jealous (as discussed by her previous post), I just think she’s mean, bitter, and full of hate. Even if there’s a market for it, I’d rather be poor than be mean.
so I popped over, just to see what that twit was saying. Two things….
1. Loralee is kicking some ass over there!
2. I think you are getting more support than critisism. You know who your real friends are.
oh and
3. Need some Parsons?
Sandi-
I want you to know why I read you every day:
1. I trust you. You don’t hide behind a “fakie” blog title/name. You don’t hide anything. PERIOD.
2. You keep it real. You’re life isn’t perfect and you never pretend that it is or that YOU are. I’ll bet that the majority of us couldn’t be as brave, open and honest as you have been. We are too, TOO afraid of showing our weaknesses, letting our “secrets” get out, worried that if people knew the REAL us… well you get the idea.
3. I appreciate what you have to say. It’s entertaining, heartfelt, straightforward and REFRESHING. No self-righteous bull crap or pretentious drivel.
Anyway, I’m a fan. Thanks for sharing yourself with those of us who care. And don’t let this “hater” suck one more minute out of your life. It won’t be worth it.
At the VERY least, CL posts dissenting opinions on her blog. That takes courage. All I see here is a bunch of ego stroking and I know for a fact that other people have disagreed with you on this post. You can’t even admit that it’s not cool to post people’s personal information for the public to see. On top of that, your commenters here are digging up a bunch of other crap, like doing password recoveries and linking to other sites that show her picture. What is that crap?
Oh, and Steven you have us ALL pegged, don’t you? Where did you get your degree in abnormal psych? Oh, nowhere.
Mary-There are opposing comments here too. But yesterday you told me your weren’t coming over here again. What is this, your third comment?
I have deleted about twenty comments that are NASTY, HATEFUL and vicious toward Michele. I have been way more thoughtful than she is about what I let go through.
You can disagree with me and the way I handled this all you want. But ultimately Michele picked this fight, not the other way around.
I have had her information for months, she knew I had her information. I emailed her and shared it with her. That didn’t stop her from attacking me. She threw the first punch, and now she will pay for it. If she wants to have a hate blog, it will cost her a HELL of a lot of money to defend her right to do so.
Not all speech is protected under the first amendment. Maybe you should brush up on American Tort Laws and protected speech. Outing her on this blog is nothing compared to what is coming in real life.
Since Brandon and I are nice people and fair people, we gave her the option of removing her post or moving forward in a lawsuit. Clearly, she made her choice. Our attorney’s have already begun their process. Michele can spend her money defending herself in court and we will let the judge decide.
I am moving on. The weight of the world was lifted off my shoulders the moment our attorney took over. I hope she learns it’s not okay to maliciously attack people.