18
Jul

Twenty years of REAL LIFE

Posted by Sandi in 1989, Utah

 I am so glad I decided to attend.  SO GLAD!  I have had a blast this entire weekend.  Brandon is getting the birthday sex trip he so deserves, and it has helped that I have regressed twenty years in the last two days, so I am a wee bit wilder and the sex may be a wee bit better.  

 

I can’t believe how surrounding yourself with old friends can make you feel seventeen again.  Or maybe it’s just me?

 

Anyway,

I have learned a few things in the past few days that i need to share. 

First- I no longer care that Nicole had sex with my Ex in his CRX before he met me.  It used to eat me alive. It was all I thought about when I saw her.  Not anymore.  I spent much of the weekend hanging out with Nicole and I love her!  YAY!

Second-I am a flirt.  i didn’t ever know this until now. Poor Brandon is not too happy about this side of me.  BUT I only flirt with harmless people, or so I think.

Third-I am one guy "purer" than I thought I was.  Finding out this crucial piece of information overshadowed my entire evening. I also had a few drinks, and I may have hyper focused a bit on this one guy, i mean, piece of information.  All my life I thought I had hooked up with six different people.  Forever, my number of sexual partners has been SIX!  Last night, I lost one of those numbers.  I am shocked and dumbfounded about this.   Why would I have ever counted him in that number of people?  Why would I say I had, if I hadn’t?  When that "number" walked in last night, I wrapped myself around him and may have humped his leg a little, I am not sure.  But In the conversation that followed, I was told we didn’t ever go all the way.  

I was like WTF?  

How did that happen?  What do you mean we never got it on?

…and then I proceeded to ask anyone and everyone that would have known this information 20 plus years ago, if I had or had not had sex with Paul?  

The answers were all unanimous.  

NOPE. 

NEVER.

NO WAY!

I feel extremely confused and puzzled and can’t quite understand how he became one of my sexual partners if he never was.  

It was like I was living in the twilight zone.  I am still sitting here now, shaking my head.  

Can we all together say, "WHAT THE HELL?"

Yeah, that’s how I feel.  

Other than that, the reunion was perfect.  It was everything I hoped it would be.  

I learned that I retain much stronger and more vivid memories of my childhood than I do my teenage years.  If I went to elementary school with you, I will know you and recognize you without a doubt.  If I only attended high school with you, the odds are not in my favor.  

I had a darling couple, Shane and Michelle, approach me,  I went to elementary with Shane, but supposedly they lived in my old neighboorhood in 97-98 in Woods Cross. I don’t remember that.  I have ZERO recollection of them being my neighbors, but I remember Shane when he was ten.  It’s crazy how my brain works.  I may have blocked out huge portions of my life, but I remember Muir Elementary.  

I wish I would have had more time to see more people.  I was sad that some people chose not to come.  I wish I could have seen and talked to everyone.  To all of you BHS 89 Alumni, I LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!!

I know I have said this ten times already, but I am SOOO glad I came.  I have really awesome friends and Brandon HAD to meet them.  I have ZERO regrets.

That’s a PERFECT WEEKEND!  

 

 

21 Responses to “Twenty years of REAL LIFE”

  1. elenka says:

    I’ve never been to a single reunion….quite a distance away, but if I wanted to, I could have gone. Don’t really regret it, when high school was over, it was over.
    I’m glad you guys had a good time, tho!!

  2. Vicky says:

    Yay! I am so happy for you! So well deserved for BOTH of you to have this get-away :) And if that isn’t a huge shout out to everyone contemplating whether or not to go to their reunion I don’t know what is.

  3. Nancy says:

    I, too, am so happy for you! I was afraid it might turn out the opposite, so I couldn’t wait to hear how it went. You give us all hope for our reunions!

  4. CraezieLady says:

    Go SANDI!! I’m so happy you’re having a GREAT time!!!

  5. Sarah Bellum says:

    Dammit, I knew I should have gone to my reunion. To think I could have decreased The Number in one evening.

    Glad you had a good time!

  6. Tauni says:

    Awesome. Glad you had fun! Did Brandon enjoy it as much as you did?

  7. Braja says:

    Well THAT’s a wild weekend….. :) ))

  8. Pam says:

    I’m so glad everything worked out so well!

  9. simone says:

    Wait! I’m still stuck on how he was number 7 but he really wasn’t and it turned out be that it was only 6. Are you sure?? I mean, you KNOW about these things. Maybe he was a bad lay so you just didn’t recall..or maybe…I dunno. Either way, I’m glad that it brought you back home to where you are now. Sometimes, taking a glimpse of what used to be is good for what you have. Now, you have to look forward to some awesome birthday sex with Brandon. Go easy on him, k????

    By the way, give me a call! We need to talk!!!

  10. Roni says:

    Im glad you went. My ten year was great. So i am hoping the 20 will be even better. Hope you return with a limp and safely……..Love ya!

  11. Louise says:

    Glad it all went well for you Sandi

  12. HappyCampers says:

    So glad it was worth going to!!! :)

  13. Marla says:

    I’m glad you two had a blast.

  14. Akilah Sakai says:

    Glad you had a good time.

    And … um … glad you also lost a sex partner at the same time. LOL! You’re a nut. How the hell did you mess up such a low count?

  15. libby says:

    I used to be able to name every guy I had slept with — first and last. Now, not so much. I blame it on age.

    Glad you had fun!

  16. Pops says:

    Color me wrong again. I am glad you had fun, are now home, and committed to a life of sobriety

  17. Janie says:

    I’m so glad you went and conquered, even though I advised you to skip it.

    I type corrected.

    Love ya chica!

  18. Kay says:

    I’m so glad you enjoyed yourself!!!

    And I have to agree with the WHAT THE HELL sentiment, too :)

  19. Julie says:

    It was WONDERFUL to see you again Sandi! It made me smile that you still remembered our little outing to the mall during school and me telling the cop over and over again, “It was JUST seminary . . we were ONLY skipping seminary – what’s the big deal??” LOL – now look at me :-) .

  20. Kristen says:

    I’m so glad you had a great time Sandi! And even happier that you came to the reunion. I promised a good one didn’t I?

  21. kristin says:

    Brandon is awesome. So glad I got to meet him in person. You are one lucky girl. Glad you had a good time, it was fun, wasn’t it? Paul… Paul Tew? If it was him, I never would have believed it either. Paul Doty?

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